Hey, I'm new into swinging, so I'm curious...

My boyfriend and I tried swinging once, but just soft swap. We wanna try a full swap, but the problem is that I'm a really shy person. I'm in a relationship with my bf for almost 7 years and I have never cheated on him. How can I manage this situation? We really wanna try it, so please help!

Well I'm a single male I would say first find a man that will take charge and of your man says ots OK just let go you and your boyfriend should both want each other to be comfortable and truly have fun I wish I had a gf because I'd like to help you and I'd make sure you get exactly what you want it's the rush of knowing your going to get to feel someone else and it's OK then when you are done and swap back don't think to much into it just know you got what you wanted and so did he and then fu k